THE KEY TO ENJOYING A REAL LIFE: This will be the most difficult task in your life.

However, it will also be the most important. Stop being involved with those who are not ready to make true friends with you.

Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change. Stop showing up for people who are indifferent to your presence.

Stop giving your love and energy to people who are not ready to make friends and respect you.

Users have no place in your life

I know that your instinct is to do everything you can to earn the goodwill of everyone you can. But it is also the impulse that will steal your time, your energy and your sanity.

Change your life attitude

Fully immersing yourself in life leads you to embrace joy, interest, and commitment. Not everyone will be ready to meet you on your terms.

That does not mean you have to change who you are. It means you have to get away from people who are not prepared to be with you.

If you are excluded, or subtly insulted, reflect on the situation. If you are used by the people you spend most of your time with, reconsider offering them your energy.

Rethink offering them your energy if you are forgotten or easily ignored. You are not doing yourself a favor by spending your time with them.

You are not for everyone

The truth is that you are not for everyone, and they are not all for you. That is what makes it so special when you find the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship. It could be love or another kind of relationship.

You will know how precious it is because you have experienced what is not.

Attain Happiness and Freedom

If you try to force someone to be with you, you will miss out on true happiness. You will also deny yourself freedom.

Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end. Maybe if you stop sending text messages, your phone will remain silent for days and weeks. Maybe if you stop caring for someone, the fake friendship between you will dissolve.

That doesn’t mean you ruined a relationship. The only sustaining factor in a relationship was the energy you, and only you, put into it.

That’s not love. That is attachment.

The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy. It is not your time that is limited, it is your energy.

What you give to each day is what will create more and more in your life. What you give your time is what will define your existence.

When you realize this, you will begin to understand why you are so anxious. You waste your time with people who do not empathize with you. You also spend time in jobs, places, or cities that do not suit you.

You will begin to realize something important. Protecting your energy is the most crucial thing you can do for your life. It is vital for yourself and for everyone you know. Do this more fiercely than anything else.

Make your life a safe haven where only people who can care, listen and connect are allowed.

You are not responsible for saving people.

It is not your job to give people your life. Why? because you feel sorry for them, because you feel bad, because you ‘should’, because you are obligated?

Because, at the root of all this, you are afraid that they will not return the favor. It is your aim to realize that you are the master and lover of your destiny. You accept the love that you think you deserve.

Decide that you deserve a real friendship. Choose a true commitment. Surround yourself with genuine people who are healthy-minded in their attitudes toward you.

With faith, love, patience, and great courage, wait in the dark, just for a moment. And look how quickly everything starts to change.

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